Some people are put off by the perceived commercialism of Valentine’s Day, but you don’t need to book a table in the fanciest restaurant or shower your beau with lavish gifts to have a memorable day.
Celebrating any day with the one that matters most has got to be pretty great, right? You don’t need to spend lots of money on dressing to impress or hitting the town. We think that just putting some thought into a date at home is much more special; you can tailor your time together to suit your personalities, plus enjoy complete privacy.
We’ve come up with some ideas for a unique, romantic and fun date night. The common theme here is ‘low-tech’ – we’re suggesting you turn off the devices and re-connect with your partner.
Spa breaks are a favourite with couples when it comes to luxury dates but premium treatments and services are invariably very expensive.
The good news? You can create your own spa at home! It’s likely you’ll already have most of the supplies you’ll need in the bathroom cupboard.
Create some ambience with low lighting and/or fairy lights, plenty of scented candles and some chilled music (it doesn’t have to be whale song!).
Place blankets and pillows on the floor (over a yoga mat for support, if you have one) if you are going to be doing massages here. Sprinkle flower petals around for a luxe touch.
Make sure you have some food to hand. You can have an afternoon tea in the evening, cook a light meal or just have some trays to pick at with fruits, salad, cheese, chocolate etc. Fruit water muddled with mint is extremely refreshing, but then again, so is a cold glass of Prosecco!
Choose the treatments that you think you and your partner will enjoy most. Here are some of our top picks:
Order a takeaway or prepare all your favourite nibbles – crisps and dips, popcorn and chocolate fingers are a must for this fun-filled date night.
Bring out a couple of games and get close while getting competitive. A word to the wise – if you’re extremely competitive, perhaps give this one a miss – it’s Valentine’s Day, not the finale of the Apprentice!
These are some of our favourite games:
We all have a natural curiosity for how other cultures live. If you’ve ever wanted to ‘do as the Romans do’… or the French… or the Swedish, why not spend an evening in their shoes? If you love travel as much as us, plan a date night around somewhere you’d love to go together.
Focus on the food, music, art and culture of your chosen country for a really quirky date night. Here are some suggestions:
Start your foray behind the Iron Curtain with smoked salmon and blinis followed by a classic stroganoff or delicious meat piroshkis, washed down with an ice-cold vodka cocktail or beer.
Stravinsky and Tchaikovsky both make for a regal dinner soundtrack, but Pompeya and Motorama make for a great contemporary twist. After dinner, read out loud to each other from Anna Karenina or cosy up in front of that most romantic of movies, Dr Zhivago.
Why not try something a little more inventive than Spag Bol? It’s Valentine’s Day after all! A caprese salad is a light and tasty starter, chicken parmigiana is an easy but impressive main and, of course, anything other than tiramisu for dessert is unforgivable!
Florence is the birthplace of opera, but you don’t need to go there to watch one. You don’t even need leave home! YouTube features many full length operas for free, all you need to do is cast to your television or use a Smart TV app and search like this.
Whilst IKEA meatballs are arguably the best food on the planet (IOHO), Sweden has so much more to offer! Create a smorgasbord of your favourite Scandinavian nibbles: smoked fish, pickles, rye bread, crackers, cured meats and cheeses make a delicious sharing platter.
As well as good food, Sweden has some amazing music too. Go retro and indulge in an Abba rewind evening or get bang up to date with First Aid Kit and José González. Have a go at Lagom (pronounced laaaw-gum), the Swedish practice that’s displacing uber-trendy Hygge – with an ethos of ‘not too little, not too much… just right’, it sounds like the perfect night in to us.
You don’t need to spend a small fortune or make a huge gesture to express your love. Whatever you do on Valentine’s Day, do it together.